Healthy, Effortless Alternatives to Divorce

Divorce is now becoming an expensive, permanent decision to even the trivial issues that arise in marriages. A lot of people go out looking for a lawyer, such as this Chicago divorce lawyer to help them through their troubled times. But instead of trying to see if they can make it work, getting a lawyer is the first step that people take. Before making the abrupt decision to leave your marriage, one should consider the alternative divorce resources which may make you re-evaluate divorcing. Of course, there are legal alternatives to divorce such as legal meditation, legal separation, litigated divorces, and more. There is a lot have legal practices that go into a divorce so if you want to find out more, you can check out somewhere like https://nsfamilylawfirm.com/practice-areas/ or other divorce resources. However, prior to choosing these options one should examine whether they have exasperated all of the resources necessary to save their marriage. Most of the marriages were built on strong foundations and have children that can be impacted by the separation. According to the U.S. Census Bureau, there is a divorce every four minutes. There are cost effective solutions that may save your relationship, and ultimately your family.

Divorcing Couple

Regardless of your marital issues, counseling can assist in helping you save your marriage or find the most amicable method of divorce. There are various forms of counseling available through psychologists, religious leaders, or one could even confide in a mutual friend that can provide understanding for both sides. Sometimes, we get so involved in proving our own point; we don’t hear our significant others’ plight in the relationship. Simply listening to your partner can assist in stopping issues from escalating and becoming a deal breaker. Having an objective perspective on a topic can drastically aid in helping you understand one another. Even if counseling has been attempted before, try another method-such as a therapeutic vacation or a couples retreat. Going on a trip together and rekindling the passion is significantly cheaper than divorce and isn’t as tedious.

Another alternative to divorce is to begin doing what helped you fall in love. Most people fall in love, get involved in relationships, and their love for one another is overshadowed by the stress caused by finances, loved ones, distance, work, differing philosophies, and even children. As we develop, especially those who get married young, we have to remember why we fall in love with our significant other and take the time to discover the new person they are slowly becoming. Simply taking a day or two out of the week to date, sending romantic texts throughout the day, or even taking time out to talk- about nothing but each other, could improve the tone of the relationship.

While doing things that remind one another of why you are together, you should also create new, exciting memories together. One of the most vital things in marriage is to keep the flame between you two ignited. Therefore, it’s vital to continuously do spontaneous things and activities that assist in keeping your bond exciting. Whether it’s trying a new restaurant, skydiving, or changing the way you both approach intimacy, keeping your marriage unpredictable avoids having either of you becoming bored or looking for what you are missing elsewhere. Even if you have children, you can devote at least once a month to trying something new together. While doing so, you while learn about your counterpart, experience your best moments, and potentially face your worst fears together.

There are alternatives to divorce that span beyond the legal routes to ending amicably. There are ways to avoid divorce by simply spending time with one another. However, there are inexcusable cases, like domestic abuse, where divorce is necessary. Nonetheless, any other case may be able to be solved without separating and/or breaking up the family you spent time and devotion creating. However in some cases the damage cannot be undone and a divorce is inevitable. In some areas it may be easier or harder to get a divorce, but divorce in Arkansas, for example, is available with the help of a divorce lawyer to keep the split civil and kind.

About the Author

David Cantor is a very well respected Divorce Lawyer in Phoenix, AZ. The Cantor Law Group has over 70 years combined experience in family law matters in Arizona.

CONZACE: A Heavy Duty Mom’s Partner for Heavy Duty Immunity

In all three surgeries – two births and one pregnancy-related ailment – I’ve had in the past five years, my doctors have always prescribed Conzace to help improve immunity and to promote healing.  You see, in all my surgeries, my body would not heal well and I would always suffer from seroma.  Blame it on my unhealthy body due to my sedentary lifestyle then.  I was told to increase my Vitamin C intake to help with the healing process but my doctors prescribed Conzace specifically because, aside from Vitamin C, it has Zinc which would speed up by healing process.

However, I’m not really one who’d regularly take vitamins so when my wounds were completely healed, I stopped taking Conzace also.  I have nothing against vitamins and supplements but since childhood I was always the one who posed a challenge to Mom come vitamin-taking time.  All my sisters took theirs judiciously while I always snuck mine back into the bottle.

That’s about to change though as I’ve been advised to take Conzace again.  No, I have not undergone any surgery again nor have any wound that hasn’t been healing well.  But months of not having any househelp or yaya to help me with the two little ones and the house chores is taking a toll on my body.  Aside from being 24/7 mom-slave to my little ones, I also do the chores (thankfully hubby does his share of these – love you for that, hon!), cook, work as a part-time academic tutor, ghostwrite, and maintain websites.  Whew!

Stress, lack of sleep and recurrent cough and colds have gotten the better of me that one co-parent in school had even asked me, “What happened to you? You look so haggard!”  It sounds mean but, really, haggard is an understatement.

So, again, it’s back to Conzace!  But why Conzace when just vitamin C would suffice, you may ask.  Well, vitamin C does help develop white blood cells needed to boost immunity but we need more than that.  Conzace has a much stronger formula to develop white blood cells and make them stronger.

1 soft gel capsule of Conzace has:

  • 500mg of Vitamin C which develops white blood cells.
  • 100IU of Vitamin E and 5000IU of Vitamin A to intensify the protection of white blood cells
  • 25mg of Zinc which multiplies white blood cells so we can have the right number of white cells to defend us against sickness.

This formulation makes stronger white blood cells which means stronger immunity.

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The secret to strong immunity is in our white blood cells!

Post surgery, I would take two capsules a day. This time though, one capsule of Conzace per day would be enough to give my immune system a boost. I usually take mine in the evening before I go to sleep but you can take it anytime of the day.  Heed my advice, do avoid taking it on an empty stomach as vitamin C and an empty tummy don’t always go well together.

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CONZACE gives superior white blood cells for heavy duty immunity.

Conzace is available in soft gel capsules at P12.40 each (SRP) and is available in Mercury, Watson’s and other drugstores.  To know more about the #1 prescribed multivitamin for Heavy Duty Immunity, talk to Conzace thru www.facebook.com/conzace.



Love Your Family = Love Your Spouse

This afternoon, my husband and I attended the I Love My Family! Parentin.tv Love Month Event held at the Atrium of the Podium Mall.  My husband and I seldom leave the toddlers at home but I was able to ask my sister to babysit for us so we can attend the event which would also be our Valentine’s date.

I dragged my husband along to this event as I felt that we needed some “couple time” and I thought that the event would be a perfect pre-Valentine’s date as it was targeted for couples.  But, lo and behold, when we arrived at the venue, there were only a handful of men.  Good thing my husband didn’t insist on going home eventhough the venue was teeming with wives, mommies and children.

One of the main reasons why I really wanted to attend is that Ms. Maribel Dionisio of Love Institue is one of the speakers.  I am a big fan of her and know very well that she always gives good advice and always has insightful ideas.  She talked about “HIS NEEDS, HER NEEDS” dealing with the differing needs and wants of each couple.  We couldn’t agree with her more that men and women have different needs as my husband are on opposite ends of the pole most of the time.  Seeing the results of the questionnares we answered only proved us correct.  My husband and I realized (I hope) how our needs differ and how to best address each other’s needs.

Tibo and Vangie Evalle of Educhild Foundation talked about “LOVE LANGUAGE”, the different ways we communicate our love and the different ways we expect to be loved. They were really a great pair full of candidness and inspiring stories.  I do hope that my husband and I would have a relationship such as theirs through time.

All three speakers stressed on the importance of the bond between the couple if the family were truly to live happily together.  My husband and I have a lot to work on.  Answering the checklists they gave us just showed how completely different our needs are and how differing our views have become.  However, their many advices and reminders on how to keep the relationship strong and growing would truly guide us in our journey as husband and wife.

photo courtesy of Jes Lising